What is Right and What is Wrong?– Article 2.
08 MAY 2023
Step 2: If there is more than one receiving system for your decision or action,
prioritize them in the decreasing order of power. The system with the least
dependence on other systems has the maximum options to decide or act, and
so, the system with maximum options is more powerful; the customer has the
power to opt to move out of us and choose anyone else in our place as
supplier. The system with the least dependence on other systems is therefore
a more powerful super-system if you are facing more than one receiving
system or super system for your decision or action.
For example, in official decisions, the correct order of more powerful to less
powerful receiving or super systems is the external customer, the company,
the internal customer and the boss in that order. This is because the boss
depends on the internal customer, as without the internal customer, there is
no need for the internal supplier department and boss of that department. In
the same way, there is no need for internal customer departments if the
company is not there and so the company is more powerful than any internal
customer department; finally, there is no company if there are no external
customers. So, the external customer is the most powerful receiving system or
super system. We name the external customer as SS1, the company as SS2, the
internal customer as SS3 and boss as SS4.
In the home front in India, SS1 is the family (‘khandan’ or the family culture),
SS2 are the children, SS3 are the parents/spouse and SS4 is the society. In the
US, the family is SS4, the children SS3, the parents or spouse SS2 and the
society is SS1. This is because of the cultural differences between the two
countries.
For some people conscience is a Super System or receiving system in whatever
they do, as they decide and act strictly as per their conscience only. For some
others spirituality is the Super System. Such spiritual people think that the
force above and beyond us is directing our thoughts and actions. Some people
think that they are the super system as anything they do or think affects them
more than anyone else and so they should check what effect their decision or
action has on them first.
So, in all, there are 11 SS’s, 4 on the official side, 4 on the personal side,
conscience, spirit, and oneself.
The receiving or supersystems depend on the roles we play in life on different
occasions. For a given role, we can figure out which of these 11 SS’s are
relevant and which are not.
The roles we play in our lives can be decided by us using our free will. But it is
also a reality that many times we are forced to perform roles that are not our
choice, not based on our free will, but are thrust on us. Even in such a case we
should work out the relevant receiving or super systems out of the above 11,
for the role we play at any time and prioritize them also.
But we must be cautious about choosing ourselves as a super system in any
role we play in life, forced on us or otherwise.